How to Have Sex in the Shower

When it comes to sex, the wetter, the better. Not only does slippery, sliding skin feel better, but less friction can mean more pleasure. That’s why one of our favorite places to have sex outside the bedroom is in the shower. Whether you have a small standing shower, a spacious tub, or anything in between, shower sex is a fun and unique activity to explore.

Looking for a uniquely intimate night with your partner? It may be time to explore shower sex. Read on to learn the benefits of shower sex, our best tips and tricks for having sex in the shower, and new and exciting positions to try.

Benefits of Shower Sex

No matter where it occurs, sex can be good for you. Orgasms trigger the release of hormones oxytocin and dopamine, two “feel good” hormones that can boost your mood, decrease the prevalence of depression and anxiety, combat stress, improve your sleep, and so much more.

Plus, there’s some evidence that sex may be able to lower your risk of prostate cancer, improve your pelvic floor functioning, and provide other meaningful benefits that can make you happier and healthier.¹

Having sex in the shower may come with even more perks. Let’s review.

Enhanced Sensory Experience

At the end of the day, sex is all about sensation. When done in the shower, the sensation can be even more intense.

Not only does shower sex combine the pleasure of taking a shower with the pleasure of sex, but it can introduce new sensations like slippery skin on skin, pleasant bath fragrances, sexy steam, and more into the equation. You’re left with a totally sensory experience and even more pleasure, both perfect for creating an intimate evening with your partner.

Easier Cleanup

There’s no way around it: sex can be messy. Sex may produce different reproductive fluids, it can get sweaty, and it may make a mess.

Sex in the shower tackles this issue during sex and reduces the need to clean up after. This also makes shower sex a great setting for period sex. Simply finish taking the shower once you’re done!

Increased Privacy

For those who share their space with friends, family, or roommates, sex in the shower can have the added benefit of additional privacy. Not only is a running shower a clear sign that the bathroom is occupied, but the sound of the shower can muffle the sound of sex.

Shower Sex Tips and Tricks

Ready to explore the world of shower sex? Read on to learn our best tips for good shower sex.

Clean up the Shower First

First thing first: clean your shower. Good sex starts with a sexy environment, and a dirty shower is anything but. Give your shower a good scrub to get rid of any grime.

You may even want to set the mood by lighting a nice candle or spraying a lovely-smelling fragrance. While it can be tempting to skip ahead to the good stuff, arousal is an important part of sex, and a clean, good-smelling bathroom will get you well on your way.

Get a Non-slip Bath Mat

Safety is a serious concern when it comes to shower sex. While soapy slipperiness can feel great on your skin, it can be a significant slip hazard.

If you’re going to engage in shower sex, it’s a good idea to get a non-slip mat for the bottom of your shower. That way, everyone can stay upright and safe.

Be Careful With the Temperature

Hot and steamy temps are great for showering, but they can be harsh on your sensitive genital area. Water that’s too hot can also contribute to vaginal dryness, which can increase friction and decrease pleasure. Pick a warm enough temperature to be comfortable but not so hot that it may hurt.

Aim the Showerhead

For great shower sex, treat the showerhead like a third partner. It can be a great way to introduce an additional sensation, especially if it has different stream settings. Use it to your advantage for the best shower sex yet.

Bring Toys

Many toys are designed to be waterproof. Our advice? The more, the merrier! Bring along your favorite waterproof toys into the shower for tons of fun.

Try using them in new and different ways, like on your erogenous zones. Just remember to only bring waterproof toys into the shower. Non-waterproof toys may run the risk of breaking or malfunctioning and causing harm.

Get a Foot Stand

If you don’t have a seat or a ledge that can bear weight in the shower, a foot stand can be a huge help. It can open up possibilities in terms of positions.

Prop a foot up on the footstand for easier entry, sit on it to comfortably perform oral sex, or use it any other way you see fit. Again, make sure the footstand is waterproof for the best outcome.

What Are the Best Positions for Shower Sex?

Ready to try sex in the shower? Read on to discover a world of new positions for the best shower sex of your life.

To the Wall

Standing sex positions can be a challenge, but a wall can make it easier. If you have a standing shower, the wall is your friend. A solid wall can provide plenty of support and stability during shower sex.

Have the receiving partner stand with their back to the wall to bolster them during penetration. If you do have a footstool, they can prop one of their feet up on it to open themselves up for easier access.

Go Wide

If your shower is spacious enough to allow for lying down, give it a try! Have the receiving partner “go wide” and spread their legs as far as possible. This can open them up to a world of possibilities: oral sex, penetrative sex, touching, and more.

Bullseye

The bullseye is another standing position, though this one with rear entry if you will. The giving partner should stand behind the receiving partner, with both partners facing the same direction.

The receiving partner can bend over into a 90-degree angle, and the giving partner can give their best bullseye. This is a great position for a tub shower so that the receiving partner can prop themselves up on the edge of the tub for support.

Wheelbarrow

This position is only for those experienced with shower sex, as it can be quite difficult. If you’re going to try the wheelbarrow, we recommend doing so before introducing any soapy substances into the shower because slipping can be a serious concern with this position.

In the wheelbarrow, the giving partner stands upright while the receiving partner bends over in front of them and places their palms firmly on the ground. The giving partner can then lift the receiving partner’s legs and place them on either side of their hips, allowing for perfect entry. Remember to go slow and communicate! Most can only last a few minutes in this position.

Champagne Room

Just like a lapdance in the champagne room, this position is all about sitting. It’s perfect for those with a seat in their shower or a good ledge that can be sat on.

The giving partner can sit down, and the receiving partner can slowly sit down on their lap, facing away from them. As the receiving partner sits, they can guide the giving partner inside them. Let the fun begin!

The Chairman

The chairman is a modification of the champagne room, but in this position, the receiving partner faces the giving partner. This can be a much more intimate take on the champagne room, as partners can look at one another and kiss while having sex.

Ballet Dancer

Just like an elegant ballet dance, the ballet dancer is a standing position. The receiving partner can wrap a single leg around the giving partner, allowing for easy access. The giving partner should wrap an arm around the receiving partner for extra support in this position.

Whether sex occurs in the shower, the bedroom, or anywhere else, it’s always important to practice safe sex. Thanks to Durex condoms, you’ll receive protection against unexpected pregnancy, STIs, and more. Plus, with our line of ribbed condoms, pre-lubricated condoms, and more, you can experience additional sensations to help sex feel even better.