Want to give your lover an ultra-special treat that shows them just how special they are? Why not try a hot sensual massage courtesy of our pleasure massage techniques? The perfect way to get you both in the mood, an erotic massage is a great form of foreplay and can help build and prolong pleasure to make climax even more enjoyable when it comes. But it’s not something you can simply start with, instead, you have to learn how to give a sensual massage first.
Follow our sensual massage tips on how to give your wife a sensual massage (and your husband too) for the ultimate sensual massage that will leave them begging you for more.
Read on to learn about:
- How to Give a Sexy Massage: Set the Tone
- How to Give an Erotic Massage: Get What You Need
- Start Your Hot Sensual Massage
- Massage Turns: Sexy!
How to Give a Sexy Massage: Set the Tone
Giving a sexy and sensual massage is a great for a date idea, especially ones based on your Zodiac sign, like Cancer date ideas or Leo date ideas.
Nonetheless, before you even start thinking about limbering up your hands for giving sexy massages, you need to set the tone.
Choose a comfortable location – the bed or sofa – and take the time to clean it of any distractions or reminders of household chores (such as dirty plates or piles of washing). Dim the lights, if you have a dimmer switch, and light a few strategic candles, making sure that they are placed safely and won’t pose a fire hazard.
Sprinkle rose petals across the floor and bed or sofa and put on some soft, soothing music that will allow your partner to truly relax for sexy massages, thus heightening their senses.
How to Give an Erotic Massage: Get What You Need
Now you know how to give a sensual massage, you need to make sure you have everything you need to give your partner sexy massages. Take the time to stretch and loosen your own joints by slowly working your hands. This will help to prevent the risk of developing cramps mid-massage and disappointing your partner by stopping.
You also need to invest in some suitable massage oils and other bits of kit to help you do the job. An intimate massager is great for really working those erogenous zones and lavender oils are always good for helping encourage relaxation.
It’s important to check for any allergies before applying these to your partner though – the last thing you want is for their massage to end in a nasty rash, or worse!
Start Your Hot Sensual Massage
With everything prepared, it’s time to start the sensual body massage. There are many different areas of the body you can focus on but combining them all together in a single session will provide the ultimate erotic massage.
Start with a head massage, rubbing the temples and forehead before working your way slowly down the neck. Move in closely and let your partner feel your breath against their neck – you can even gently massage or nibble their earlobes for added arousal.
Apply a little oil here and upgrade your sexy sensual massage by working your fingers along their neck and collarbone in long, slow movements that build sexual desire. Tease them by lightly touching just above their chest before moving onto their arms. You’ll come back to the chest later!
Once you’ve finished massaging the arms, it’s time to move to the other end of the body. The feet are one of the most sensitive parts of the body so take your time here and apply gentle but firm pressure while working your way up and down from heel to toe.
Move on from the feet by massaging the legs. Work slowly and start at the ankles before moving up the calves, sliding your hand from the outside to the inside as you progress higher.
Once past the knee, gently run your hand up the inside of the thigh – part your lover's legs slightly as you do. As you reach their groin, switch to the outside again and tease them by gently caressing or catching their most intimate area every now and again.
By this point, you should both be feeling pretty aroused so it’s up to you how much longer you prolong your pleasure. You can end it here by starting to rub your partner and engage in other acts of foreplay or you can continue the massage a little longer.
Return to the chest to heighten the sexual tension, or get your partner to roll over and play with their buttocks. Both are sure-fire ways to leave your lover moaning in ecstasy.
Massage Turns: Sexy!
Now you have learned how to do erotic massage, remember that playing with your partner is a two-way street. This means that it should be a great idea to take turns to massage one another. Afterward, you can start with foreplay. Learn more about foreplay tips today for an amazing sexy time at home.
