Drive your man wild with these handy tips he’ll want to try out himself…
You might wonder why it’s worth learning how to become a skilled hand job heroine, but not only do a woman’s hands feel very different on a male body top his own, but if you don’t have time for a long sex session, a great hand job can be a super-swift and highly hot way to satisfy him. It can also be a fantastic element of foreplay – plus, there’s no better way to truly get to know his personal anatomy and how he likes to be touched than literally taking matters into your own hands!
Here’s a short guide to amazing manual play…
Watch and learn
The absolute best way to tell what your lover likes in terms of hand jobs is to learn directly from him by watching how he masturbates. If your partner feels shy about demonstrating his technique in front of you, try blindfolding him; many guys feel less inhibited when they can’t see you looking at them.
Bear in mind that you’ll probably need to handle him a bit more softly and slowly than he does himself, but his approach to masturbation will reveal a lot about the speed and strength of grip he prefers.
Grab a tube of lube
A smooth, slick touch feels incredible for a man and too much stimulation without lubricant can be uncomfortable for him. Although men produce a very small amount of liquid from their penis when aroused, called ‘pre-ejaculatory fluid’ it’s rarely enough to spread over his shaft.
Use a couple of pumps of lube such as Durex Play Perfect Glide which is silicone-based, so it stays slippery for three times as long as water-based varieties. Try running the bottle under a hot tap to warm it first, before stroking it over the length of his penis!
Read more: The Best Lubricants for Extended Orgasms
Assume your position
A simple, comfortable position to use during manual stimulation is to have your man lay on his back, while you kneel between his legs or by his side – this gives you a clear view of everything you’re doing, and easy access to all his sensitive parts!
Once you’re a little more confident, try straddling his chest with your back to his face; he gets a great view of your behind, whilst you’ll probably feel more relaxed knowing he’s not scrutinising your every move. You could also experiment with standing behind him, and reaching your hand around his hips to hold his penis; he could even wrap his hand lightly over yours and guide your movements.
